Too late for hari raya wishes?

That’s the family I’ve always dreamt of, a father, a mother, a son and a younger daughter… like the one in the ad. It was a moderate Raya celebration due to my mom recent illness but anyway we did have some fun.

My mom’s recovering at a very slow rate and that is no surprise when u’r 72, thank you so the very much to my two sisters (Nyah and Yang), they are the one who spend most of their time taking care of her.

We (my family of four) went to some houses, friends and family during syawal. My two little angels are enjoying their income during syawal-duit raya. Put it in the savings and it could be useful during the rainy days.

A friend of mine, Brian Sitamulaho ‘the Zambian hero’ caught me by surprise when he asked about my mom’s condition. Thanks to the blogging technology, he got to know about the tragedy thru my blog.(at least)

Abdul Rahim is back in town, coming back for good I guess? Look me up bro, futsal or snooker?

I’m writing my fisrt ‘novel cinta melayu’, don’t laugh please. At least I’m trying to come up with something. Moral support from friends pretty much needed!!.

Lastly, I wanna wish everyone SELAMAT HARI RAYA& MAAF ZAHIR BATIN

SuperMak

9 October 2005, our family routines transform when my 72-year-old mother suffered the dangerous stroke attack. A month in the hospital, she was in great pain and till this day the right side of her body paralyzed. Food intakes thru tubes, passing urine thru CBD are parts of the complication.

Mak never complain about any of the tasks she performed as a super housewife, every morning she woke up early performing her solah… from then onward she work and work hard to make sure everyone in the house will be in high spirits, my dad with his demanding diet, we (the kids) with our own needs… how does she cope with all that? God knows…

Having born and live to see your dad and mom approaching their golden age, I try to prepare myself with the strength within hoping that I’ll be ready when it’s the undeniable time for them. But what happen to my mother on that day prove me wrong… U can never prepare yourself to see your loves one suffers. Sad, angry, disbelieve and many more feelings that can’t be describe roars in your brain and the only solution is to pray and pray for her.

Thanks to all family members, friends and relatives for the time and assistance. Mak is still weak but slowly recovering, she’s at my Nyah’s house in Klang with my dad on her side. Any of you can visit her whenever you have the time but the least we can do – pray for her.